Introduction Marriage in Islam is not merely a contract between two individuals; it is a sacred bond ordained by Allah ﷻ. It is a means of completing one’s faith, seeking tranquillity, and fulfilling natural desires in a halal manner. Unfortunately, today, marriages have become more about extravagance and cultural expectations than the true Islamic spirit of simplicity, mercy, and mutual understanding. This article explores how the best marriages in Islam are those built on simplicity and righteousness, supported by authentic Hadiths, the Qur’an, and the example of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. 1. Marriage is a Sunnah and a Blessing Marriage is highly encouraged in Islam. It is a means of protecting faith and cultivating a family based on taqwa (God-consciousness). 🕋 Allah says in the Qur’an: “And among His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy.”[Surah Ar-Rum 30:21] This verse reminds us that marriage is a source of peace and love, not stress and financial burden. 🕌 The Prophet ﷺ said: “Marriage is part of my Sunnah, and whoever does not follow my Sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations on the Day of Judgement.”(Sunan Ibn Majah 1846 – Sahih) 2. The Best Marriage is the Simplest One of the greatest misconceptions today is that a lavish wedding equates to a successful marriage. The Prophet ﷺ warned against such extravagance and praised simplicity. 📿 A’ishah (رضي الله عنها) narrated: “The most blessed Nikah is the one with the least expenses.”(Musnad Ahmad – Sahih) The Prophet ﷺ’s own marriage to his noble wives was simple, without unnecessary celebrations or lavish dowries. Example: The Marriage of Fatimah (RA) and Ali (RA) When Fatimah, the daughter of the Prophet ﷺ, married Ali (RA), her dowry was very small, and their wedding was simple. She was given a modest bed, a water-skin, and a few household items. Yet their home was filled with barakah, love, and mutual respect. 3. What Truly Matters in a Marriage The Prophet ﷺ emphasized religion and character over wealth and beauty: “A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So choose the religious one, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”(Sahih al-Bukhari 5090, Sahih Muslim 1466) This applies to both men and women. A righteous spouse is more valuable than any material possession, for they are a means to help you reach Jannah. 4. Dowry (Mahr): A Right, Not a Burden Mahr (dowry) is a gift, not a price tag. It should be reasonable and within one’s means. 📿 The Prophet ﷺ said: “The best of dowry is the simplest.”(Sunan Abu Dawood 2106 – Hasan) In the Prophet’s time, some men gave as little as a ring of iron, or even taught their wife a portion of the Qur’an as a mahr. Extravagant mahrs discourage marriage and go against the simplicity taught in Islam. 5. Mercy, Forgiveness and Cooperation After Marriage Marriage is not always smooth. Disagreements and tests will come. The key is in how couples deal with them—with patience, mercy, and forgiveness. 📖 Allah says: “…And live with them in kindness…”[Surah An-Nisa 4:19] 🕌 The Prophet ﷺ said: “The best of you are those who are best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.”(Sunan al-Tirmidhi 3895 – Sahih) Mutual respect, communication, and emotional support are the foundations of a successful Islamic marriage. 6. Marriage is Half of One’s Faith 🕌 The Prophet ﷺ said: “When a person marries, they have fulfilled half of their religion. So let them fear Allah in the remaining half.”(Bayhaqi – Hasan) Marriage gives a person a partner to help in religious duties, raising righteous children, and guarding chastity. 7. Cultural Practices vs. Islamic Principles Islamic marriages are often overshadowed by: These are not from Islam. They are obstacles to marriage and cause hardship. 🕌 The Prophet ﷺ said: “Verily, those who go to extremes are ruined.”(Sahih Muslim 2670) Let us return to the Sunnah, where simplicity was celebrated and taqwa was prioritized. Conclusion: Let’s Revive the Sunnah of Simple Marriages Simplicity in marriage brings blessings, ease, and happiness. The best marriage is not one filled with gold, lavish halls, and social pressure, but one filled with Allah’s blessings, love, and piety. ✅ Key Lessons: May Allah grant us righteous spouses, bless all marriages, and make our homes gardens of peace and piety. Ameen.
10 Major Signs of Qiyamah: Are We Closer Than We Think?
🌙 10 Major Signs of Qiyamah: Are We Closer Than We Think? Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Raheem Every believing heart knows that this world is temporary — destined to end. But when? And how? Allah ﷻ and His Messenger ﷺ left us clear signs. In times of fitnah, Muslims look at these signs to remind themselves of the reality of the Akhirah — so we stay firm on the Straight Path. 📜 What Are the Major Signs of Qiyamah? The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ spoke in detail about minor and major signs. Minor signs are countless — like widespread immorality, broken family ties, dishonesty in business — many of which we see today. But the Major Signs — these are terrifying, earth-shaking events that will happen one after another once they begin. The Prophet ﷺ said:“The signs are like beads on a string. When the string breaks, they follow one another.”(Musnad Ahmad 10537, Sahih) ✅ The 10 Major Signs: These come from authentic Hadith collected in Sahih Muslim and others. 1️⃣ The Appearance of the MahdiA righteous leader from the family of the Prophet ﷺ who will fill the Earth with justice. 2️⃣ The Dajjal (Antichrist)The greatest fitnah — a false messiah who will deceive millions. 3️⃣ The Return of Isa ibn Maryam (Jesus, peace be upon him)He will descend in Damascus and kill the Dajjal. 4️⃣ The Emergence of Ya’juj and Ma’juj (Gog and Magog)Savage tribes unleashed, causing massive corruption. 5️⃣ Three Major LandslidesOne in the East, one in the West, and one in Arabia. 6️⃣ The SmokeA thick smoke that will cover the earth. 7️⃣ The Beast of the Earth (Dabbatul Ard)It will speak to people, marking the believers from the disbelievers. 8️⃣ The Rising of the Sun from the WestA clear sign — when it happens, repentance will no longer be accepted. 9️⃣ A FireA huge fire that will gather people to their final place of assembly. 🔟 The Trumpet Will Be BlownSignaling the end of this world and the beginning of the next. Allah ﷻ says:“The Hour will not be established until you see ten signs…”(Sahih Muslim 2901) 🕋 How Should We Prepare? Knowing these signs is not for thrill or gossip — it’s a wake-up call. The Prophet ﷺ said that when the signs begin, repentance will not benefit a soul that didn’t believe before. ✅ Pray your Salah on time.✅ Hold fast to Qur’an and Sunnah.✅ Raise your children with Iman.✅ Avoid major sins.✅ Make du’a for firmness. “So whoever hopes for the meeting with his Lord — let him do righteous work and not associate in the worship of his Lord anyone.”(Surah Al-Kahf 18:110) 📣 Final Reminder Don’t let the hype die here — share this with your family. Read Surah Al-Kahf every Friday for protection from the Dajjal, as our Prophet ﷺ taught. May Allah ﷻ protect us from fitnah, and keep our hearts firm until we meet Him. Ameen.
True Freedom from People’s Praise and Criticism
True Freedom from People’s Praise and CriticismReflection on a statement of Malik ibn Dinar رحمه الله Malik ibn Dinar رحمه الله, one of the great early ascetics and scholars of Islam, once said: “Since I’ve learned the reality of people, I don’t care who praises or criticizes me; as they’ll be excessive in both.”[Az-Zuhd of al-Bayhaqi (154)] SubhanAllah. What a statement — and what a deep truth it carries. 🌱 Understanding the Reality of People Malik ibn Dinar is not just dismissing people’s words. He’s pointing to something deeper: the inconsistency of human judgment. One day people will lift you on their shoulders with praise, calling you righteous, noble, inspirational. The next day, perhaps for the same actions, they may call you a hypocrite, too strict, or too soft. People are fickle. Their hearts change. Their words change even faster. Imam ash-Shafi’i رحمه الله once said: “People’s satisfaction is a goal you will never reach. So seek that which will benefit you and hold fast to it.” That’s exactly what Malik ibn Dinar lived by. He wasn’t motivated by people’s opinions — whether they cheered him on or tore him down. Why? Because he realized something many of us still struggle with: people will always exaggerate. Their praise may be more than we deserve, and their criticism may also be unfair. Neither should sway us. 💎 Focus on Allah, Not the Crowd When you stop living for praise or fearing criticism, you become truly free. You stop becoming a slave to people’s reactions. You work for the pleasure of Allah ﷻ alone. This mindset transforms your sincerity (ikhlas). You stop decorating your actions so others notice. You stop hiding your flaws just to protect your image. Instead, you worry about your standing in the sight of Allah, not your image in the eyes of people. As Allah says in the Qur’an: “So do not claim yourselves to be pure; He is most knowing of who fears Him.”(Surah An-Najm 53:32) 🕊️ A Message for Our Times In an age of likes, shares, followers, and “cancel culture,” this quote of Malik ibn Dinar is gold. Many live for approval, for comments, for attention. They tailor their speech and image to suit the crowd, not the Creator. But those who understand the reality of people… they live above that noise. So take this advice to heart: Live for Allah. Please Him. Speak the truth. Be sincere.And when praise comes — don’t let it fool you.And when criticism strikes — don’t let it break you.Because in both cases, as Malik ibn Dinar says: they’ll likely be excessive anyway.
The power of the airwaves:Why an Islamic radio station is vital today
The Power of the Airwaves: Why an Islamic Radio Station is Vital Today In the name of Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Kind. We are living in a time where media surrounds us from all directions—TV, smartphones, social platforms, YouTube, podcasts. Everyone is broadcasting something, and sadly, much of what’s out there is either distracting, misleading, or downright harmful to our spiritual growth. That’s why now, more than ever, an Islamic radio station is not just beneficial, it’s essential. An Islamic radio station becomes a beacon of light amid the darkness of misinformation, confusion, and moral decline. With the click of a button, listeners can tune in to Qur’an recitation, authentic Hadiths, stories of the Prophets, Islamic reminders, and live talks by scholars grounded in traditional knowledge. In a time where falsehood is often loud, we need a constant, accessible voice of truth. Whether you’re driving, cooking, working, or relaxing at home, an Islamic radio station provides non-stop nourishment for the soul. It reminds us of Allah, keeps the heart alive, and helps the entire household stay spiritually uplifted. Children grow up hearing beneficial words, and the elderly who may not attend the masjid often can still feel connected to their deen. In Western societies especially, Muslim youth are facing an identity crisis. An Islamic radio station helps preserve and strengthen Islamic identity by offering programs in English and other languages that resonate with different age groups. It becomes a cultural and spiritual anchor, reminding us that our deen is not just for the masjid—it’s for every part of life. A good Islamic radio station connects the dots between Muslims in a town, city or even across countries. Local events, charity appeals, community projects, death announcements, and live khutbahs can all be shared through the airwaves. It’s more than just a station—it becomes a central hub for the Ummah, especially for those who feel isolated or disconnected. Many non-Muslims are curious about Islam but may hesitate to walk into a mosque. Through an Islamic radio station, they can learn about the religion from the comfort of their own space—no pressure, no judgement. Likewise, Muslims who are distant from the deen can reconnect by simply listening, sometimes accidentally, but it becomes a seed of change. SubhanAllah, dawah through radio is silent but powerful. Islam has always embraced tools of communication. The Prophet ﷺ used the minbar to address the masses, the early Muslims used writing, books, and even poetry for da’wah. Today, radio is a tool—when used for good, it’s a means of ajr (reward) that never stops. Imagine every listener who makes dua, prays, or learns a sunnah through a broadcast—you share in the reward if you supported that station. Final Thoughts In short, an Islamic radio station is a lifeline. It connects, educates, uplifts, and unites. In a world filled with distractions and negative influences, we must use the same tools of technology—but for the sake of Allah. If you’re already involved in supporting or running an Islamic radio station—may Allah reward you. If you’re not, now is the time to get involved. Sponsor a show, share the station link, donate airtime, or just be a regular listener. Every little bit counts. Let us revive this Sunnah of community communication—through the radio waves—for the sake of Allah and the benefit of our Ummah. “Whoever guides someone to goodness will have a reward like one who did it.”— [Sahih Muslim] 📻 Turn it on. Tune your heart. Transform your home.
Over thinking and anxiety Shaikh Suleman Moola
🧠 1. The Heart of the Problem Overthinking leads to mental paralysis, trapping us in endless “what‑ifs”. It can spiral into anxiety—and even depression. Our faith guides us to trust Allah’s decree (tawakkul) and accept life’s uncertainties. The Prophet ﷺ modeled calm and trust, even in trials—his peace of heart came from unwavering reliance on the Divine. Prioritize acts that strengthen your spiritual core: salah, Quran recitation, dhikr, and time spent in mosque/community. A heart anchored in remembrance of Allah is naturally calmer. Don’t hesitate to lean on trusted family, friends, or mentors. Human connection is part of Allah’s plan to heal and uplift us. Final Encouragement Mawlana concludes with a warm reminder: true peace flows when we anchor our hearts in Allah and purposefully engage with our minds. Anxiety loosens its grip when we act—especially when we act with spiritual intention.
The Faith of Bilal (RA)
The Faith of Bilal (RA) Title: “Ahad, Ahad – The Power of Imaan” Hadith:“The most beloved words to Allah are: SubhanAllahi wa bihamdihi.”📖 (Muslim) Story:Sayyiduna Bilal (RA), a former slave, was tortured under the blazing sun, whipped and crushed under rocks. Yet all he said was “Ahad, Ahad” – One, One (Allah is One). That unshakable Imaan made him one of the greatest companions. The Prophet ﷺ said, “I heard your footsteps in Jannah.” Message:True Imaan isn’t shaken by pain or pressure. It is rooted deep – and its reward is Jannah.
Imaan and the Hidden Deed
Imaan and the Hidden Deed Title: “The Deed That Saved a Man” Hadith:The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Allah does not look at your appearance or your wealth, but He looks at your hearts and your deeds.”📖 (Muslim) Story:A man once gave a coin in charity every night. One night, it mistakenly went to a thief. The next, to a prostitute. The third, to a rich man. The people mocked him, but he kept giving for Allah’s sake. Later, it turned out that the thief repented, the woman changed her life, and the rich man began giving charity. Allah accepted his sincere intention. Message:Imaan is doing good even when results aren’t clear. Allah sees what the world misses.
Dua During Hardships & Difficult Times
Dua During Hardships & Difficult Times Arabic: اللَّهُمَّ لاَ سَهْلَ إِلاَّ مَا جَعَلْتَهُ سَهْلًا، وَأَنْتَ تَجْعَلُ الْحَزْنَ إِذَا شِئْتَ سَهْلًا Transliteration: Allāhumma lā sahla illā mā ja‘altahu sahlā, wa anta taj‘alu al-ḥazna idhā shi’ta sahlā. English Translation: O Allah, there is no ease except that which You make easy, and You make the difficult easy if You will. Source: Ibn Hibban (Hadith 2427)
Be Kind with everyone
Hadith on Kindness This hadith tells us plainly that kindness beautifies everything. Without kindness, even good deeds lose their charm. This is a powerful reminder: if you want Allah’s mercy, show mercy to others first. That includes being kind, forgiving, and gentle. It may seem small — smiling, helping, or even a kind word — but the Prophet ﷺ teaches that kindness itself is a form of charity, earning you reward without fail. Kindness is at the heart of good character. Without it, manners lose their meaning. A smile and kindness cost nothing but can brighten someone’s entire day. Why this matters? In the Islamic tradition, kindness is not just optional; it’s part of faith itself. The Prophet ﷺ himself was known as ‘Al-Rahmah al-Muhammadiyyah’ — the Mercy to all creation. He showed kindness to everyone: family, companions, enemies, animals, even plants. The wisdom here? Our character is our legacy. Kindness builds bridges, softens hearts, and brings us closer to Allah. Story 1: Kindness to the Orphan — Zaid ibn Harithah رضي الله عنه The Prophet ﷺ cared deeply for orphans. One famous example is his love for Zaid ibn Harithah, who was actually his adopted son before Islam changed some rules on adoption names. When Zaid was captured as a child and sold into slavery, the Prophet ﷺ sought to free him and treated him as family. This shows how kindness isn’t just about passing charity but about building loving relationships. Lesson: Look after orphans and vulnerable people with sincere care, not just charity. Story 2: The Gentle Approach with His Enemies Despite facing severe persecution and even attempts on his life, the Prophet ﷺ never responded with harshness or cruelty. When the people of Taif rejected him and threw stones, he prayed for their guidance instead of cursing them. Lesson: Kindness and forgiveness often open doors that anger and force never can. Story 3: Kindness to Animals One day, a woman was punished in Hell because she starved a cat. The Prophet ﷺ said that showing kindness to animals is a sign of true compassion. Once, a camel came to the Prophet ﷺ, appearing tired and hungry. He told the owner to give it water and rest. The Prophet ﷺ emphasized mercy even to animals. Lesson: Be kind to all creatures, big or small. Story 4: Smiling as Charity The Prophet ﷺ said: “Your smile for your brother is charity.” (Tirmidhi) Even a simple smile is an act of kindness and spreads warmth and brotherhood. Lesson: You don’t have to wait for a big moment to be kind—start with small gestures daily. Story 5: Patience and Kindness with Children The Prophet ﷺ was incredibly gentle with children. Once, a child urinated in his mosque, and instead of anger, he just cleaned it up calmly. Lesson: Show patience and kindness especially to the young and the weak; it’s a reflection of your own character. How to Apply These Lessons Today? Dua to Increase Kindness and Mercy “O Allah, make me among Your servants who show mercy to Your creation. Make me gentle in character, and enrich me with Your bounty, O Most Merciful of the merciful.” You can say this after salah or during quiet moments. “As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, dear listeners! Today, I want to remind us all about a beautiful trait the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ taught us—kindness. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, ‘Every act of kindness is charity.’ That means even a smile can earn you reward from Allah! So no matter how busy or tired we are, let’s try to be gentle and kind in our words and actions.” Story:“Once, the Prophet ﷺ saw a hungry camel and told its owner to give it water and rest. He cared even for animals! So imagine how much more we must care for our fellow humans, young and old.” Call to Action:“Let’s make a small goal today—to say something kind to someone, or help a neighbour, or even smile sincerely. This little act can change someone’s day, and bring us closer to Allah’s mercy. May Allah make us all kind-hearted servants.”